5 Ways to Be a Conscious Consumer on Valentine's Day

I have a love/hate relationship with Valentine’s day. I love a day to celebrate love, I love the idea that the whole world is celebrating love together, and I even love the pink and red hearts that flood marketing emails and grocery stores. At the same time, February 14th is a day that has been steeped in consumerism. Every year, whether out of love or obligation, people buy chocolates, flowers, jewelry, and more for the special people in their lives. In spite of the enmeshment of consumerism with Valentine’s Day, it is possible to approach this holiday ethically and consciously.

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Things Survivors Wish You Knew About Psychological Coercion

Psychological coercion is an important concept to understand when it comes to the powerful dynamics of human trafficking. Dr. Evan Stark likens psychological coercion to being taken hostage: “The victim becomes captive in an unreal world created by the abuser, entrapped in a world of confusion, contradiction, and fear.” Psychological coercion is an intentional pattern of behavior (often used alongside other forms of abuse) which can include threats, excessive regulation, intimidation, humiliation, and forced isolation. It is designed to punish, dominate, exploit, exhaust, create fear and confusion, and increase dependency. It strips a person of their identity and breaks down the very core of who they are.

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Things Survivors Wish You Knew: Sean's Story

Sean shares his story of exploitation and his journey as a survivor of human trafficking. This story is part of the series, “Things Survivors Wish You Knew,” where we hear directly from survivors in the Dressember community about their experiences and perspectives on human trafficking. *Trigger Warning: The following is a true story of a survivor of human trafficking. This story includes sensitive language surrounding sexual assault. Please consider this before reading further.

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Things Survivors Wish You Knew About Sustained Liberation and Long-Term Recovery

People often wonder about survivors of human trafficking: ​Why would anyone ever go back after they’ve escaped? ​It can be difficult to imagine someone returning to an exploitative situation, and yet 80% of trafficking victims are revictimized after finding freedom, according to Kristi Wells of the Safe House Project.


The question we should be asking isn’t why a survivor would go back, but instead, how do we empower survivors to the level that they can achieve real, long-lasting success and live relationally healthy lives? What is necessary for survivors of exploitation to reach sustained liberation?

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Things Survivors Wish You Knew: Citlali's Story

Citlali shares her story of exploitation and her journey as a survivor of human trafficking. This story is part of the series, “Things Survivors Wish You Knew,” where we hear directly from survivors in the Dressember community about their experiences and perspectives on human trafficking. *Trigger Warning: The following is a true story of a survivor of human trafficking. This story includes sensitive language surrounding sexual assault. Please consider this before reading further.

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Things Survivors Wish You Knew About Trauma-Informed Language

Language binds a culture. It determines the way we view and respond to various social justice issues, such as the anti-trafficking movement. We must be thoughtful about the language we use surrounding human trafficking and trafficking survivors because it has the potential to propagate sterotypes, disempower survivors, and prevent survivors from receiving the help they need. By being intentional with our language, we can become better advocates and restructure our cultural narratives surrounding human trafficking.

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The Dressember Network: Survivor Leadership in Anti-Trafficking

In September, the Dressember Network’s partner ECPAT-USA filed information with the U.S. Supreme Court on the rights of child trafficking victims and in support of the petition of Courtney Wild, a young woman victimized by Jeffrey Epstein. ECPAT-USA teamed up with a phenomenal team at the law firm WilmerHale that provides free legal services. The Dressember Network recognizes that policy change is most effective and sustainable when it is survivor-informed. ECPAT-USA Survivors’ Council members provided powerful statements to the U.S. Supreme Court on how the law can best support young victims. Survivors play an integral role in our partner’s policy efforts on federal and state levels, to build a system that treats all children with dignity.

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Things Survivors Wish You Knew: Hannah's Story

Hannah shares her story of exploitation and her journey as a survivor of human trafficking. This story is part of the series, “Things Survivors Wish You Knew,” where we hear directly from survivors in the Dressember community about their experiences and perspectives on human trafficking. *Trigger Warning: The following is a true story of a survivor of human trafficking. This story includes sensitive language surrounding sexual assault. Please consider this before reading further.

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The Dressember Network: Eliminating Child Labor

Archie, who is 11 years old, works 10 to 12 hour days digging for gold in a pit often flooded with water. During this time, he breathes through a hose connected to a diesel-powered air compressor. At the end of the day, he eats dinner and then goes to sleep to prepare for the next day.

Rafael, who is 12 years old, shares a watering hole with the bulls on a farm where he has worked for five years, paying down his father’s debts.

Taisha, who is 16 years old, spends her days taking care of her grandmothers around the house. Though she is the first member of her family to attend formal schooling, she receives very little support and the extent of her chores has only increased since the COVID-19 pandemic began.

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The Dressember Network: Legal Services and Policy Reform

Kelly, a survivor of human trafficking, told the Polaris Project, “Every time I sent [my application for a potential job] in, I got it returned. It was frustrating. I was finally just going to forget it and say to myself ‘I just won’t ever get a job doing [what I want] because everyone is going to judge me and I have to keep reliving my past.’” Kelly, like many other survivors, has a criminal record as a result of being forced to engage in illegal activity. Her situation is not unique, and, unfortunately, criminal records hold survivors back, impacting their ability to obtain employment, housing, education, benefits and financial assistance, immigration relief or adjustment of status and family stability. Solving the issue of criminal charges for forced crimes requires a holistic approach to providing survivors with access to the resources that they need for successful reentry into society.

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Gaining Freedom for OSEC Survivors like Ruby

Every young girl dreams of making her mark in the world. For Ruby*, she thought this would begin when she was given the chance to prove her independence. As the youngest of ten siblings, she thought her opportunity came when a recruiter sent her a private message on social media offering her a position in a computer shop. The recruiter won her trust by offering free room and board and paying for the travel fare from her hometown to a place 650 kilometers away. The shop even sent a houseboy to pick her up from the port. Ruby was so pleased by the opportunity to start a new life that she jumped in right away.

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The Dressember Network: Economic Empowerment in NYC

If we’re at a dinner party and someone asks what we do, we are unlikely to highlight the awesome cross stitch we completed while watching our new favorite Netflix series, the weekend trip we took to Acadia National Park, the hug we gave our significant other, the long run we went on the other day, or even the book that we read that completely changed our life. We know that what we “do” is inherently our job.

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Preventing Young Women Like Sasha From Being Trafficked

When Sasha’s* mother started noticing a change in her daughter’s behavior, she didn’t know who to turn to. She felt helpless as she watched her daughter withdraw from her to spend more time online and engage in sexual relationships with men she didn’t know. After a simple Google search, she found one of the Dressember Network partners in her local area in Atlanta.

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The Dressember Network: Fast Track Vocational Training

As Malala Yousafzai wrote, “When someone takes away your pens you realize quite how important education is.” For so many women who are able to access exit pathways from trafficking situations, particularly in East Asia, this is precisely the situation. Women who escape brothels in East Asia are often unable to finish basic schooling before they are trafficked. As a result, they often lack the personal and professional skills to be economically independent and are therefore vulnerable to revictimization.

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Dressember Network: Care for Survivors in Uganda

Talia is an 8-year-old survivor of human trafficking. She was deceived by her older brother and trafficked for the purposes of human child sacrifice. During a police raid, her brother was murdered by the witch doctor, but Talia was rescued. Her condition at the time of rescue was severely physically, mentally, and emotionally abused. When she arrived at the Dressember Network partner’s comprehensive residential Aftercare Program, she was extremely traumatized. She relayed to Joy, her case manager, that she wanted to be a policewoman when she grew up so she could find the man who killed her brother and take revenge.

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Self-Care Tips for Sustainable Advocacy

Talking about human trafficking can take a heavy toll on our spirits. And yet, speaking up and supporting the voices of survivors is not only empowering but vital to ensuring the respect and dignity of all people. Still, the constant emotional labor required on a daily basis for Dressember advocates and the need to regularly share triggering content with our communities can be so overwhelming.

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The Dressember Network: Freedom Centers and Child Advocacy Centers

Two minors on a bus in South Africa seemed to be avoiding eye contact and social interaction, and sticking close together rather than with the adults accompanying them. A young man noticed that they were speaking a foreign language and the adults with them, posing as their parents, spoke a different foreign language. The young man did not immediately think much of it, as situations like this are not uncommon in South Africa. However, when he heard one of the minors say that their mother was lost, indicating that the woman posing as their mother was in fact not who she purported to be, he was alarmed: if these two adults were not the children’s parents, who were they?

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The Dressember Network: Philippines Survivor Care

In the last two years, people have turned online for social connection at a time when so much of their day-to-day activity could only have been experienced online. Children were forced to attend school online as a result of the restrictions required to maintain public health. The pandemic has been a vulnerable time for everyone, perhaps most of all for survivors of human trafficking. In one of the programs the Dressember Network resources in the Philippines, survivors of human trafficking in became unemployed at a rate of 60% between March and May 2020. This digital livelihood brought a spike in Online Sexual Exploitation of Children (OSEC), with online sexual abuse cases tripled in the Philippines.

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The Dressember Network: Disrupting Online Sexual Exploitation of Children (OSEC)

TikTok, a social media application with which users are able to post short videos of up to 60-seconds that often feature funny content, tutorials, workouts, or even frank conversations, has had a meteoric rise to popularity, especially in South East Asia, where there are nearly 200 million users. Children use social media apps like TikTok to grow in digital media literacy, connect with global online communities, create, and share common interests with others. While TikTok is recommended for users ages 15 and older and the app’s terms of use technically require that a child be over the age of 13 to engage with the app’s features, we all know that many children younger than this are using the app. With the rise of social media that is engaging for children, like TikTok, there has also been a rise in the Online Sexual Exploitation of Children (OSEC).

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